There is something profoundly textured in the sensation of knowing that the relationships are already there… “do not look for a relationship, it is already there”
I think the body is such a good guide to this - not in a woohoo magical thinking way – just in the fact that its the 'me' that gets wet in the rain, hurt when I fall, exhilarated when I run (or dance or cycle or surf or...). It's the me that gets physically hurt and instinctively susses out the relational surroundings (for better or worse).
There is something profoundly textured in the sensation of knowing that the relationships are already there… “do not look for a relationship, it is already there”
Yes, I like that too, I feel more and more these days, and gives me a bit of an antidote to the dripping existential despair!!
I think the body is such a good guide to this - not in a woohoo magical thinking way – just in the fact that its the 'me' that gets wet in the rain, hurt when I fall, exhilarated when I run (or dance or cycle or surf or...). It's the me that gets physically hurt and instinctively susses out the relational surroundings (for better or worse).
Yes, totally "it is me who gets wet in the rain" hahaha such a clear descriptor of the relationship that is already there literally and as a metaphor